Mostly in movie dialogues, one finds life to be of 4 days long. In reality, life is big & is hard. We need many people at all points of time in life to spend our life with or to provide a little bit of charm in this roz mara ki bhaagti daudti zindagi. There is family, friends, loved ones, colleagues, acquaintances (maybe an office girl/boy with whom u have never talked to but hope to do so, for whom u have lost 4 kgs. in the last month just to have those first words with him/her). Then there comes that one person for whom ur heart says “Yes I can spend my whole life with him/her”….“Haaye agar ye meri life me ho, to life kitni perfect ho” ….Even their imperfections seems to be perfect for us when we meet such a person.
Now, how to make that life perfect or how to make those imperfections seem perfect for u. That is what my first blogpost ‘HUM TUM’ is all about. Hum Tum is about every couple, about the relationship they share with each other, about their luv n trust & ofcourse the complaints they have for one another.
“Moments” beyond these complaints are those everyone aspires for. Moments which can make their relationship a cherished one. Moments with which life becomes worthliving J Give ur loved one these moments of ur luv n care. No matter if u can’t make poems, u r not a poet. No matter if u can’t make cute drawings, u r not a graphic designer. It would be enough if u care for ur loved one bcz care is the sweetest form of luv.
Life is fast and we wish to be the fastest & in this fast-paced life, we often forget to do small small things which may have been cherished by our loved one. It’s the smallest of things which makes a relationship big, like:
J Starting everyday as if it is the first day of ur relationship
J Say “I luv u” everyday, no matter how old u become & what the others would think
J Give ur good luck kiss every morning for the day to pass on smoothly
J At the end of the day, share every joy & relieve ur loved one of every tension what-so-ever.
J Share every joke
J Make ur loved one laugh aloud by intentionally mis-spelling certain words, making stupid faces & doing silly things. Let free that tiny tot within u
J Create new surprises often
J Tease ur loved one sometimes
J Respect each other’s decision
J Understand & fulfill each other’s expectations
J Give their individual space to ur loved one
Then also if some argument occurs, then let ur ego rest in peace & be the first one to say the magical word Sorry bcz this is the relation u want to hold on to & forever make it stay. It’s the person who is important & not the argument.
Just to sum it up in a few words, make ur relationship as good as the hands and the eyes share with each other. It’s like when the hand gets hurt, the eye cries & when the eye cries, the hand wipes its tears.
